In anime, characters call each other “Tanjirō-kun”, “Nezuko-chan” or “Tanaka-san”. These are Japanese honorifics: words added after a name to show respect or closeness. They are not just an anime thing; they are used every day in real Japan. This guide explains each honorific, when to use it and when not to.
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The most common honorifics
| Honorific | Japanese | Rough meaning | When to use it |
|---|---|---|---|
| -san | さん | Mr / Ms / Mrs | The safest and most common; strangers, colleagues, elders, everyone |
| -kun | くん | (friendly address) | Usually for boys or juniors, among friends; a boss may use it for a junior at work |
| -chan | ちゃん | (affectionate address) | Small children, close friends, family, pets |
| -sama | 様 | honoured / dear Sir or Madam | Very respectful: customers, deities, addresses on letters |
| -senpai | 先輩 | senior | For someone senior to you at school or work |
| -sensei | 先生 | teacher / doctor | Teachers, doctors, lawyers and similar professions |
A rough comparison with Hindi: -san is something like “-ji” (Gupta ji) and -sama is more respectful, like “sahab” or “shri”. It is only a rough comparison; each Japanese word has its own range.
Three key rules
- Never with your own name. Introduce yourself as Watashi wa Tanaka desu, not Tanaka-san desu.
- When in doubt, use -san. It is the safest choice when you are unsure.
- No honorific means closeness, or rudeness. Friends use bare names, but calling a stranger or an elder by name alone can sound rude.
Examples
| Sentence | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Tanaka-san, ohayō gozaimasu. | Good morning, Mr/Ms Tanaka. |
| Yuki-kun wa tomodachi desu. | Yuki is my friend. |
| Haru-chan, kawaii ne! | Haru, you’re so cute! |
| Sensei, shitsumon ga arimasu. | Teacher, I have a question. |
| Okyaku-sama, irasshaimase. | Welcome, dear customer. |
Anime vs real life
- -chan and -kun are heard constantly in anime, but at a workplace colleagues are usually called -san.
- senpai is often linked to romance in anime; in real life it is simply a word for seniority.
- To learn polite language (keigo), read Business Japanese and Keigo.
Frequently asked questions
What is the difference between -san, -kun and -chan?
-san is the most common and respectful. -kun is often for boys or juniors, and -chan is affectionate, for small children or very close people.
Can foreigners use -san?
Yes. Japanese people use -san with foreign names too. When you speak Japanese, adding -san to other people’s names is a safe choice.
When is -sama used?
For very high respect: customers (okyaku-sama), addresses on letters and deities. It is not used for friends in everyday conversation.
Related reading
- Anime Japanese Words and Their Meanings
- Japanese Greetings
- Business Japanese and Keigo
- Japanese Office Phrases
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